User:JohnBlakesDad/Original document
Why we are here, what I need
[edit]Being stay at home dad
[edit]Continue as primary care giver
[edit]Stress from breakup
[edit]Attempting to develop sustainable career
[edit]Needing child support
[edit]Needing spousal support to have confidence to achieve career goals
[edit]Older SSAG ‘rule of 65’ value at 78
[edit]What I did in relationship
[edit]Life was good
[edit]Provided half or more of family equity
[edit]Thrift Maintenance Unpaid housework Paid student loan from 2010 to 2018-9 (need 360 account download) Was apartment manager with specific benefits Took many expensive trips and traveled frequently on weekends
Capital investments
[edit]Cars House Idea of thrift and self-sufficiency doubling family equity Definitions in economic ideas - reducing debits liabilities to create equity
How we came to Canada
[edit]Joint venture
[edit]Came to Canada
[edit]For Eve's and John's career
[edit]Planned collaborative life with animal-based youth home
[edit]Animal-based PhD dissertation Greendoors Empathy writing
Lost goals
[edit]Career
[edit]Unable to finish masters degree and psychotherapy career to care for child
Lost ability to restart computer career from separation stress
Personal goals for being in Canada (completely lost)
[edit]We agreed to move to Richibucto which would have made my life complete. All of this was canceled for the benefit of the Eve's career. Eve said I was ungrateful to her for having a child, getting Canadian citizenship, and being supported.
Bonding with a fishing community,
Bonding with a first nations band in a therapeutic context
Reconnecting with French culture
Lost opportunities to learn French
Took away (cultural) desire for sailing (explain)
Buying a manageable sailing yacht (as I had before we moved to Canada).
How things are bad now, what she is doing
[edit]Recent problems
[edit]Log of problems
[edit]Mostly Blake complaining that life is better at Eve's house (money and behavioral economics)