Why we are here, what I need[edit]

Being stay at home dad[edit]

Continue as primary care giver[edit]

Stress from breakup[edit]

Attempting to develop sustainable career[edit]

Needing child support[edit]

Needing spousal support to have confidence to achieve career goals[edit]

Older SSAG ‘rule of 65’ value at 78[edit]

What I did in relationship[edit]

Life was good[edit]

Provided half or more of family equity[edit]

Thrift Maintenance Unpaid housework Paid student loan from 2010 to 2018-9 (need 360 account download) Was apartment manager with specific benefits Took many expensive trips and traveled frequently on weekends

Capital investments[edit]

Cars House Idea of thrift and self-sufficiency doubling family equity Definitions in economic ideas - reducing debits liabilities to create equity

How we came to Canada[edit]

Joint venture[edit]

Came to Canada[edit]

For Eve's and John's career[edit]

Planned collaborative life with animal-based youth home[edit]

Animal-based PhD dissertation Greendoors Empathy writing

Lost goals[edit]

Career[edit]

Unable to finish masters degree and psychotherapy career to care for child

Lost ability to restart computer career from separation stress

Personal goals for being in Canada (completely lost)[edit]

We agreed to move to Richibucto which would have made my life complete. All of this was canceled for the benefit of the Eve's career. Eve said I was ungrateful to her for having a child, getting Canadian citizenship, and being supported.

Bonding with a fishing community,

Bonding with a first nations band in a therapeutic context

Reconnecting with French culture

Lost opportunities to learn French

Took away (cultural) desire for sailing (explain)

Buying a manageable sailing yacht (as I had before we moved to Canada).

How things are bad now, what she is doing[edit]

Recent problems[edit]

Log of problems[edit]

Mostly Blake complaining that life is better at Eve's house (money and behavioral economics)